To Catch a Cavity

Once some people find out, they always want to know how I catch Sugar Daddies. I guess because I don't have that stereotypical look of a Sugar Baby.

Full disclosure I do have a course on 'how to catch a Sugar Daddy'

But I have to share at least one of my fun Sugar Daddy adventures.

So I had just moved to Colorado and I caught the eye of a doctor from Boulder. No, he definitely was no Dr. McDreamy. I mean he dressed well, but he looked like he had gastric bypass surgery without the tummy tuck. He was active and loved to socialize, but lonely and lacked intelligent stimulation. Well, it seemed I came around right on time. Because I was still pretty new to Colorado he made sure he wanted to show me around and show me off.

A key thing about this lick: he was a successful white doctor going through a divorce that was working on himself and had something to prove. One of the key things is knowing and understanding your licks ego and playing into it.

It took me a second to catch on to me being what they called a unicorn. And I thought it was a fun cute nickname, but because I was an articulate black woman that didn't 'act' ghetto and I didn't dress like a hoochie and I wore my natural hair, I was a rare black chick from what they were used to seeing. But back to the Sugar Daddy from Boulder.

I guess he was feeling like he hit the jackpot of a rebound after his divorce, and I loved helping his ego in general, it boosted my ego too! Keep in mind I lived in downtown Denver, but because he was from Boulder he made sure I visited him there.

A Weekend Spoiling

Spa Spoiling - I felt comfortable enough that when I called to say he was sending a car I didn't have to ask questions. He told me to clear my schedule for a weekend, he sent a car for me to take me to an amazing spa retreat to enjoy massages, mani/pedi, and a room with a view. And the saltwater pool was like nothing I'd ever experienced. I was a bit surprised, but all he did was stop by to check on me, he didn't stay he just stopped by to make sure I was good and made sure I ordered amazing room service and left me to get rest to meet him for a day of shopping.

The Shopping - So the next day I wake up to a gorgeous sunrise peeking through my currents ever so gently and start getting dressed to meet the doctor for breakfast. I knew I was going to stick out in this beautiful town, but I had no idea just how much just walking around with one of their doctors would make them feel uncomfortable.

Breakfast was amazing! I had these delectable crepes with some of the freshest fruit ever and mimosas and the conversation we had was the espresso to blast through the day ahead. After breakfast we walked around and found one of the best consignments shops. I swear we had a whole montage of trying on different outfits and costumes, yep he even tried on a few looks too. I didn't want everything, but I got everything I wanted and we were off to see what else we could find. Genuinely, I'm not all about shopping for clothes. Before lunch we found some pretty cool artwork and books, I love coffee table shit, and I'll bet you that was a huge part of my appeal to the doctor. Around lunchtime we went to a different part of town.

Side note: I want to bring up that having a 'sugar daddy' is NEVER just getting someone to give you money. There's ALWAYS a price.

It was a bit busier where we went to have lunch and do a little more shopping. The people didn't seem that friendly towards us. There was one store, in particular, that wasn't very welcoming. I mean in the end he was finally able to spend $6,000 on a few outfits, but they acted as those they didn't want a younger black woman and older white man in their store spending money. Anyone else that bothered to notice could tell we were together, but we weren't being inappropriate, just out shopping. I can't say that it made me feel uncomfortable only because I knew my purpose for being there was to feed into his ego and the reaction we got was what he was looking for. I didn't realize that was his agenda until we went to his ex-wife's favorite restaurant and ran into her best friend, where we actually shared a bottle of wine and chatted it up for a bit. Being able to hold a conversation and composure was the cherry that caught myself a new cavity.